Checking In

Ladies and Gentleman,

It has been a while since I have written.  I did not quite make it to the Ironman (long story).  I changed jobs (involuntary, sort of) and I have moved cross country.  I am now living in Seattle and enjoying the Pacific Northwest.

All and all things are going extremely well for me.  These were just a few of the personal hiccups that slowed my book release, but my resolve was unwavering.  I am happy to announce that the book finally did get printed:

If you have a chance, please check it out and let me know what you think.  I appreciate all of the support that I have gotten, and I promise I will write again soon.

 

Ironman Calling

Ironman Florida Swim Start

If anyone would care to join me for Ironman Florida, you are more than welcome. (Photo credit: ZarrSadus)

Hello all, long time no talk. When I first started this blog, my intention was to force myself into a structured writing ritual that would allow me to produce a book. Don’t know why, but writing a book was always a goal of mine. Along the way, I thought I might actually be able to help a few people to manage a little more effectively. None of us are born great managers, it is a learned behavior. I know that many folks do not have a great manager to mentor them, so I was hoping that I could at least offer some guidance on how I feel management should be handled. I finished the book about two months ago. It has all of the content that I wanted and I just need to write a forward and a chapter introduction or two and it is ready to be proofread and published. It has been 99% done for two months, yet I cannot seem to find the motivation to complete it and publish it? Why is that? I am honestly not sure.

So having accomplished what I set out to accomplish what’s next? I don’t know. I can tell you that I have completely lost any motivation to write. Not sure how or why, but I cannot bring myself to write anything at this point. It is not a lack of ideas, but rather a complete lack of motivation. It has felt like a job to write anything for the last few weeks. It is no longer a labor of love. That concerned me, so I stopped writing. I suspect I will write again, but it will not be this week. I can’t produce quality content if my heart is not in it, and if I cannot produce quality content then I would rather not produce anything.

As for my immediate plans, I will finish the book before year-end and publish it. I don’t have crazy expectations on it changing the world, but I think it is a pretty good resource for managers so I want to ensure that it is available. If it sells ten copies, I will consider it a smashing success. I am also going to go back into the realm of endurance sports. One thing that has definitely suffered during my brief writing career, is my fitness level. I have put on a few pounds and generally feel out of shape. So to fix that, I have decided I am going to participate in the 2013 running of the Florida Ironman Triathlon. It is a quick 2.4 mile swim, 112 bike and 26.2 run. I have about 18 months to prepare and I have lined up a coach to help ensure I live through the training program. The Ironman race has fascinated me since I learned of its existence, but I have never had the guts to commit to it. I am locked in on it now and will get it crossed off my list before the end of next year. I would also like to knock out a 50 mile ultramarathon at some point, but we will have to see where that fits into my schedule.

So that’s what is going on. So many bloggers have come and gone since I started this blog, and I did not just want to go out without saying a word. I really don’t think that I am done writing, but we will see. I can tell you that training for the Ironman will require many isolated hours of running and biking that will give me plenty of time for self-reflection. Somewhere in there, I just may find my motivation again.

I cannot thank each and every one of you enough for the support that you have shown me. I am not going away completely; I will still try to actively comment on other blogs just so you don’t forget me. That’s all for now, but I will check back soon (I promise). If you are not signed up to get updates from me when I post, now would probably be a good time to sign up. Not sure when I will write again, but when I do it likely to be pretty good stuff.

One Of My Bigger Regrets

 I really do not have many regrets in life.  Partially because I make reasonably intelligent choices most of time, and partially because I am too arrogant to admit I made a mistake in the first place.  That being said, one of my greatest regrets in life has been my complete lack of effort in attempting to maintain relationships.  I am great at building relationships with the people I work with, but when we no longer work together for whatever reason those relationships quickly fade away.  I don’t make a strong enough effort to keep in touch with people.

 I have been making much more of an effort to reconnect with some of the people from my past.  I have harnessed the power of LinkedIn and used it to reach out to many people that I have not spoken to in years.  I have picked up the phone and called a few people as well. 

I would love to tell you that the result has been a magical rekindling of old friendships and I was able to pick back up right where I left off with all of my old contacts.   I would love to tell you that, but that would not exactly be the truth.  In some cases, I have absolutely reconnected and I think I actually brought some joy to the people I was reaching out to.  My call was unexpected and I was reaching out for no other purpose than I wanted to talk to them.  I think it made them feel very appreciated and special.  In other cases the calls were very awkward and I think they were waiting for me to ask for something or trying to figure out what my angle was.  Every call may not have had a fairy tale ending, but a few of them really made some old friends smile so I would consider the effort a success.

Here is my advice to you, reach out to an old contact today.  Call them, don’t email your communication.  I had a much higher success rate with the phone calls I made as opposed to the emails I sent.  If one of your old contacts is still local to you, then arrange to have coffee or meet for breakfast one morning. My career path would have been far better if I had taken the time to maintain relationships throughout my career.  It took me a very long time to realize the value of maintaining relationships.  Fortunately, I like to believe that I am still evolving so I am taking the necessary actions to correct my behaviors.  Learn from my mistakes and regrets and reach out to someone today that you have not spoken to in a long time.  Step away from Twitter and Facebook and actually connect with someone today.   

It turns out your Iphone can actually be used for more than updating your Facebook page. It can actually make phone calls as well.

Taking A Few Days Off

Every now and then it is good to completely unplug and spend a little time with your toes in the sand.  That’s what I am going to do.  I will not be posting anything for a few days, but I can assure you that I will miss you all and I will most certainly be back on Thursday July 5th.

Have a great week!

MBN

South coast of Barbados, West Indies.

I will try to come back with a better picture. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Are You Sure That You Are Not A Spammer?

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Twitter has introduced a whole new kind of Spam.

I have confessed several times on this site that I understand very little about marketing.  I am no expert on how to get your message out there to drive more people to your site or to get them to buy your product.  Perhaps my marketing ignorance is the reason that I do not understand sending Spam messages.

Spam email messages are  unsolicited bulk emails that are sent to large numbers of people in the hopes of getting them to click on a link that will take them to site that will introduce malware onto their computer or some messages are just designed to entice the reader to send money.  Have we not matured as a society to where these scams do not work anymore?  Are people still sending money in order to claim their inheritance from their Nigerian uncles?

In 2010, the computer security company Commtouch estimated that 183 billion Spam messages were being sent daily.  Imagine how much space that is taking up on email servers and how badly it impacts their efficiency.  How much money is being spent to combat this problem?

Some of you reading this message now are shaking your head in agreement, but you may be guilty of sending out Spam.  If you have ever sent an unsolicited email to distribution list offering your products or services, then you may be part of the problem.  Even if you have a legitimate product or service, Spam is not legitimate marketing practice and could greatly hurt your company’s reputation.

The explosion of social media has just made this problem worse.  Now we can get spam on LinkedIn, Facebook and Twitter.  I know many people use an auto-response when I follow them on Twitter.  They will send you a direct message shortly after you start following them.  Most of the messages are well intended.  They thank me for following them and then ask me to check out their Facebook page or go to their website.  Personally, I find these messages annoying.   Not sure how everyone else feels on this, but I would be curious to know if I am the only one that finds this practice annoying.  Instead of sending out 10 automated responses each day, I think you would be better off not sending anything or sending a personal response to one or two of them.  I have followed a couple of hundred people at this point, and maybe ten of them sent me a personal response.  In every one of those cases, we then engaged in an actual conversation and made a real connection.  I am pretty sure that is how it is supposed to work.

I will make you a promise, right here and right now.  No matter how successful or unsuccessful this site ever becomes, I will never send you an unsolicited email or Tweet for that matter.

Should We Have Faith In Humanity?

There are very few things that can stir an emotional reaction from me, but I came across a tweet this morning that shared this link.  The title certainly intrigued me, so I decided to give it a click.  I am glad I did.  If you are have a rough day, a rough week, or even a rough life, clicking on this may help you regain perspective.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/expresident/pictures-that-will-restore-your-faith-in-humanity

Maybe I am just getting soft in my old age, but I thought it was worth a look.

Who Has The Most Influence Over Your Career?

I was in a meeting yesterday and an interesting thing happened.  The CEO of our company walked in and everyone instantly perked up.  Those that were multi-tasking and not really paying attention suddenly stopped and gave their full attention.  Everyone was charming and smiling and actively engaged in a pleasant exchange of ideas.  Then the CEO walked back out and the mood changed instantly.That started me thinking, why do we treat the CEO so much better than we treat our peers or our employees?  Being the inquisitive person I am, I asked a few people.  Most of the answers I got started with “I don’t treat the CEO any differently but I think other people do because….”  Apparently this is a behavior we are incapable of recognizing in ourselves.  Come to think of it, I don’t think I treat the CEO any differently, but maybe I am fooling myself.  At any rate, they went on to theorize that people treat the CEO better than their peers because they believe that he holds more influence over the future of their careers.  That he can influence whether they keep their jobs, get promoted, or get a raise.

There may be some truth to that, but not a whole lot in my opinion.  I would like to believe that I have a great deal of influence over the future of my career.  I know my job well.  I have spent a great deal of time educating myself on my industry and as a result I sincerely think that I am one of the world’s foremost experts on what I do.  Whether that belief is true or not is almost irrelevant as I do not think that is what keeps me employed or keeps my future bright.  I think the main thing that keeps me employed is that I have a long track record of success.  I have a long track record of success because I treat my employees better than I would treat the CEO.

No matter how smart, ambitious, or creative I am, my future depends on my employees.  They can make or break me.  They are the most valuable people to my long-term success.  I honestly believe that and I treat them accordingly.  If they need to talk, then I make time to talk to them.  If there are issues that keep them from being as productive as they can be, then I deal with the issues swiftly.  I try to praise them often and ensure that they know just how much I do appreciate them.  They know that they are important to me because I remind them every chance I get.

My advice is to treat each of your employees as if they were the CEO of your company.  Scratch that, my advice is to treat each of your employees better than you treat the CEO.  It is the best way to ensure your long-term success as a manager.